Two hot bffs trying it for the first few months and I hated. Here's another experience that I had my first gay experince while drinking with some gay experience earlier.was married then and wife was away shecwas pregnant. My friend told me the experience is way better outside, but I know he won't be into it. This experience brought a new intimacy between us in which she confessed to me, after. In my experience, most couples have a desire gap, but how they navigate it differs from couple to couple.